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Ignorant asking a sex question from men_Dr Stoll nothing pervert, pls reply

Posted by Ignorant man on August 11, 2003 at 05:20:02:

Dear Fellow men,
I am asking this question because I don't seem to have an answer and am kind of confused (because of reading something else and feeling something else)
I am putting my thoughts in points for ease of organization:

1. I exercise and like to build up muscles
2. I cannot seem to control the urge to masturbate after 21 days and sometimes even before that
3. I truly feel drained and guilty (sometimes) when I do it
4. I would like to know the real facts on this. Whether it does affect the muscle building process in men, if not why do I feel drained and last but not least how many among you do it and how often (please don't make it a
joke)?
Consider me as an ignorant who is looking for answers. You don't have to disclose your identity anyways so please don't lie.

Dr. stoll, your opinion would be much appreciated.


A 27 year old man.




Re: Ignorant asking a sex question from men_Dr Stoll nothing pervert, pls reply

Posted by Normal on August 11, 2003 at 08:43:08:

In Reply to: Ignorant asking a sex question from men_Dr Stoll nothing pervert, pls reply posted by Ignorant man on August 11, 2003 at 05:20:02:

The guilt comes from a sexually repressed upbringing. I'm a 3-5 time a week married guy without guilt.



Re: Ignorant asking a sex question from men_Dr Stoll nothing pervert, pls reply

Posted by A woman's perogative on August 11, 2003 at 08:50:11:

In Reply to: Re: Ignorant asking a sex question from men_Dr Stoll nothing pervert, pls reply posted by Normal on August 11, 2003 at 08:43:08:

I also masturbate, when my husband's not available.
I guess its not so uncommon then.
AND I have no guilt either. I think "ignorant" may
be experiencing guilt from doing it excessively, rather
than the actual act itself, maybe?



Re: Ignorant asking a sex question from men_Dr Stoll nothing pervert, pls reply

Posted by J. on August 11, 2003 at 10:40:10:

In Reply to: Ignorant asking a sex question from men_Dr Stoll nothing pervert, pls reply posted by Ignorant man on August 11, 2003 at 05:20:02:

My question to you is, how do you last 21 days?!!! I can barley go 2 or 3 days and I'm married. Why do you have guilt? I don't understand what there is to be guilty about. If it really affected muscle building negatively in men, there would be no muscle bound men in the world. If you get my point.

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Re: Ignorant asking a sex question from men_Dr Stoll nothing pervert, pls reply

Posted by
Michele on August 11, 2003 at 14:31:10:

In Reply to: Ignorant asking a sex question from men_Dr Stoll nothing pervert, pls reply posted by Ignorant man on August 11, 2003 at 05:20:02:

I am a female who does mastrubate. My husband does as well - we are really open about it. We also have a satisfying sex life with eachother - the mastrubation is more of a quick release, though, we also use it as a sexual aid with eachother.
I think you need to understand why you feel guilty about it to begin with. I was brought up by a woman(my mother) who was brought up in a catholic orphanage, and oh my goodness, sex was taboo - and I grew up knowing she opposed to mastrubation...but I delved into how I felt about it, and I felt it was fine. It hurts no one...it is personal.
I think that you may also feel drained because of the emotional release with it.
Delve into your feelings with it. I'm not however, clear on what this has to do with building muscle..maybe only in your right (or left) arm? :)



Re: Ignorant asking a sex question from men_Dr Stoll nothing pervert, pls reply

Posted by Gregory on August 11, 2003 at 14:36:01:

In Reply to: Re: Ignorant asking a sex question from men_Dr Stoll nothing pervert, pls reply posted by Michele on August 11, 2003 at 14:31:10:

It's "masturbation" Michele. Are you sure you know what you're doing? ;)



Re: Ignorant asking a sex question from men_Dr Stoll nothing pervert, pls reply

Posted by right on August 11, 2003 at 14:46:05:

In Reply to: Re: Ignorant asking a sex question from men_Dr Stoll nothing pervert, pls reply posted by Gregory on August 11, 2003 at 14:36:01:

Right, Gregory. Looks like she has been doing it wrong the whole time :)



LOL

Posted by
michele on August 11, 2003 at 15:09:38:

In Reply to: Re: Ignorant asking a sex question from men_Dr Stoll nothing pervert, pls reply posted by right on August 11, 2003 at 14:46:05:

LOL There goes my dyslexia again.
One question - I DO take my clothes off for it, right? LOL
Kidding!



Every 21 days is excessive?? :-) No way in my book! nmi

Posted by huh? on August 11, 2003 at 15:59:20:

In Reply to: Re: Ignorant asking a sex question from men_Dr Stoll nothing pervert, pls reply posted by A woman's perogative on August 11, 2003 at 08:50:11:


nmi



Re: Every 21 days is excessive?? :-) No way in my book! nmi

Posted by A womans perogative on August 11, 2003 at 18:48:02:

In Reply to: Every 21 days is excessive?? :-) No way in my book! nmi posted by huh? on August 11, 2003 at 15:59:20:

Oh, sorry. It hought he meant everyday for 21 days.



Re: LOL

Posted by Zara on August 11, 2003 at 19:57:20:

In Reply to: LOL posted by michele on August 11, 2003 at 15:09:38:

Actually, Michele, you dont HAVE to take your clothes off for it! It can be just as good with clothes on.

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Re: Every 21 days is excessive?? :-) No way in my book!

Posted by ph on August 11, 2003 at 20:17:02:

In Reply to: Re: Every 21 days is excessive?? :-) No way in my book! nmi posted by A womans perogative on August 11, 2003 at 18:48:02:

Don't see what's wrong with that either. You consider every day excessive?



Re: Every 21 days is excessive?? :-) No way in my book!

Posted by a womans perogative on August 11, 2003 at 21:55:43:

In Reply to: Re: Every 21 days is excessive?? :-) No way in my book! posted by ph on August 11, 2003 at 20:17:02:

um, no. not excessive at all. seeing as mine is several times a day.
I just thought it was excessive because his arm was getting sore. lolol!

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Ignorant asking a sex question from men. (Archive in sex.) MASTURBATION

Posted by Walt Stoll on August 12, 2003 at 07:18:36:

In Reply to: Ignorant asking a sex question from men_Dr Stoll nothing pervert, pls reply posted by Ignorant man on August 11, 2003 at 05:20:02:

Hi, Man.

Masturbation is good for you and will help you build up your muscles via increases of testosterone (legally).

The only way masturbation can be bad for you is if you feel guilty about it or masturbate so often that you get nothing else done.

ALL guilt about masturbation has been created by misguided church policies!

Hope this helps.

Let us know how you do with this new information.

Walt

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Re: Every 21 days is excessive?? :-) No way in my book! nmi

Posted by Walt Stoll on August 12, 2003 at 07:53:18:

In Reply to: Re: Every 21 days is excessive?? :-) No way in my book! nmi posted by A womans perogative on August 11, 2003 at 18:48:02:

Hi, A.

How about 21 times a day :o).

Sorry, I just could not resist.

Walt



Re: Every 21 days is excessive?? :-) No way in my book! nmi

Posted by Melissa on August 12, 2003 at 11:36:49:

In Reply to: Re: Every 21 days is excessive?? :-) No way in my book! nmi posted by Walt Stoll on August 12, 2003 at 07:53:18:

OHMYGOSH!!!! Tooooo funny .... ROFLMAO!!!!

Melissa

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Re: I Love Your Humour, Walt~!

Posted by Tia Maria on August 12, 2003 at 19:56:40:

In Reply to: Re: Every 21 days is excessive?? :-) No way in my book! nmi posted by Walt Stoll on August 12, 2003 at 07:53:18:

LOL! You little joker, you!

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Re: Ignorant asking a sex question from men_Dr Stoll nothing pervert, pls reply

Posted by R. on August 13, 2003 at 00:42:29:

In Reply to: Ignorant asking a sex question from men_Dr Stoll nothing pervert, pls reply posted by Ignorant man on August 11, 2003 at 05:20:02:

There's a saying that 95% of surveyed men say they masturbate, and the rest lie that they don't.

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